Thoughts on Older Men with Younger Women

7 years ago

I have a subject that has been bothing me for years, and lately has come to the fore front of my brain again with the announcement of yet another "older" man marrying a "younger" woman.  This is really a pet peeve of mine.  And, why you ask?  Because I am 60 years old and have been divorced for 21 years, and have yet to "find" a man my age to even be friends with, let alone consider a companion!  (can't even begin to think marriage at this pint!)  And, the reason?  Men are the most unusal animals around.  First, when you attain the "mature" level, and your body isn't anorexic, or a size 10 anymore, you can be sure you'll be passed right on by.  Second, are we so scarey and threatening to them because we have experience under our wide belts?  What makes them think we can't be just as good a lover as that 20-30 somethings they think they have to have to be satisfied??  Don't they realize that by chasing and capturing that young nubile thing and pretending they are "the man", they are also stupid and embarassing themselves and the family they probably left behind? 

No matter how hard you try, through surgical procedures, or "enhancements", or Botox, or killing yourself at the gym, you are NEVER going to be 20, or 30 again!  Walking around with some curvaceous ornament on your arm, and playing "kissy face" in public, isn't going to make you look younger, or be envied by every human being passing you by!  You are deluding yourself if you think you are.  You actually end up being the butt end of jokes instead!  Oh, and God forbid you decide to prove your studdliness by impregnating that little ornament!  "Oh, look everybody, look, look and see what I can still do"!

Mature women are by far and away the best lovers you'll ever be lucky enough to have.  The physical body may not be what it used to be, but the desire and know how are.  You want real experience and real pleasure, you need a real woman.  At this point I'd like to direct all of you to my Google Blog, where I have written in extensive and graphic detail the differences in "young, hot sloppy" love making and real mature slow handed, touching, and sensual love making. 

I was inspired to write this now thanks to 2 different celebrities.  One I know fairly well, and one I thought I'd like to know.  Now, I'd like to share my thoughts with the world!  Please go to: and please feel free to leave me comments, or your thoughts.  I will welcome all, unless you are threatening to kill me!  LOL

Sincerely,  Kate (but also called Kathy!  Still me though!)  :)




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