It's all about quality over quanity in the Duncan house. No really. I hear people brag all the time about how they have 3 kids and still have sex 3 times a day. Really? Where and what are your kids doing while your getting it on in a closet?
My husband and I have been married for 5 years almost. While we don't bump and grind daily as nice as that would be. It just wouldn't happen around here. He works late hours or sometimes he is gone or has Army drill. I work 30 hours a week and run a almost full time photography business. We also have three children ranging from 2 to 13. They always need something! Always!
So when do two busy people find the time?
Usually on the weekends. It's usually in our room. Were not sneaking off and getting down in elevators or in dark alleys. It's no where special. Just in our wonderfuly soft bed. Sometimes we relax with a nice bubble bath and kick ass massages for one another. We also constantly flirt and send stupid gushy or umm...interesting text messages to each other during work. You have to make the day go by and what better way then flirting with your husband.
We have sex about twice a week. Every single time while we are trying to catch our breath we look at each other and say "Why don't we do that more!" Usually a few swear words are thrown around as we un-plaster ourselves from each other. It's that good.
Personally I would rather have knock my socks off awesome mind blowing sex twice a week then have sex every single day. Who has time for that? Sure we used too. The first two years we were together we did it every single day. Every day. It was great. We just don't have that kind of time anymore.
How do you and your partner find time? Do you do it more then once a week? If not, why? I would love to hear your opinion!
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