Ladies, we all have insecurities and we all have flaws. Instead of complaining about them, learn to accept them and most importantly learn to be comfortable in your own skin!
As women we are vulnerable beings. At times we get very insecure with ourselves. When we see other women that look pretty and "look like they're flawless", THE FIRST THING WE DO IS COMPARE OURSELVES AND ACT OUT BY TRYING TO PROVE THAT WE GOT JUST AS MUCH AS THEY DO. Seriously, even the "pretty girls" have insecurities too, and sometimes they can't stand looking at their own selves in the mirror. POINT BLANK, WE ALL HAVE INSECURITIES!!! HONESTLY, WE'RE NEVER GOING TO BE FLAWLESS BECAUSE WE'RE NOT PERFECT.
Attention: Trying to fix your outer appearance will not take away your insecurities. If you don't believe with yourself, love who you are, become comfortable in your own skin, and embrace the confidence and beauty INSIDE.... trying to fit with the latest trends, hairdos, working out and being glammed up all day everyday will still never satisfy you. TRUE BEAUTY LIES WITHIN!!!!
Attention: Having a man jazzing you up and complimenting you all day will not erase your insecurities either. Yes ladies, it feels good to hear a man say you look good and think you're beautiful, BUT IT FEELS EVEN BETTER WHEN YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT FOR YOURSELF. You will appreciate the compliments instead of searching for them.
When you get to that point of self- confidence and real love for yourself, all the materialistic things won't even phase you. You won't need it because you will start to let YOU shine through. Not even a man will be able to define you because you have discovered who you are and defined yourself. So ladies, learn to love all of you from the stretch marks to the moles to the weight and everything else. Accept it and be satisfied with who you are. It's okay if you want to do some little changes, but MAKE SURE YOU DO IT FOR YOU AND NOT ANYBODY ELSE.
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