10 years ago
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I posted a post, went to bed, couldn't sleep, got up, deleted the post, and decided to post this instead: LOVE IS NOT A FEELING.
I DID not marry 'cause I felt like it.

I DO not stay married because it feels good.

I WILL not be happily married 'cause the feeling is right.
The best and biggest proof of love not being a feeling is Jesus going to the cross. Out of unapologetic, unadulterated, untainted love did he hang there and suffocate to death for you and me. It did not feel good.
If you are single and looking, don't look for a good feeling....look for good love.
If you are married and struggling, don't doubt because the feeling isn't encouraged because the feeling doesn't have to be.