Anybody else have trouble getting their husband to "put out"?

3 years ago

My husband and I have been married for not even a year, but we have been together for over 3 years. For about the first two months we had sex regularly, and now it's like pulling teeth to get him to have sex. 

I know he enjoys it when we have sex. He usually just tells me he's not in the mood. Is it his age, or is just the type of man that doesn't have to have sex all the time? He is 31 now, was 27 when we met...

I am curious how many other women have this problem, and if I should just overlook it because it's no big deal, or should I be concerned??

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