As far as advice that changed me?
The first thing that comes to mind for me are words from my Grandmother when I was a child, after I showed her a crochet sculpted hockey puck I made.
You see, a thought occurred to me as I was learning to crochet: that I could do more than what everyone around me was doing. That I didn’t have to just make doilies and afghans. That I could use a hook and yarn to sculpt, kind of like clay. So I set about to prove my theory.
As silly as it might sound, showing Grandma and hearing her words was a pivotal and freeing moment I have never forgotten.
“Well look at that clever thing! See there’s nothing you can’t do and bring into reality when you set your mind to it. If you want it, and work for it, you can do it.”
That was all I needed. I’ve never been the same since.
As an adult, I realize those words may seem clichéd, but that tiny young moment contained so much power for me. Something huge shifted inside of me. I have since heard stories from others who were criticized for not doing things “correctly,” even having their hands smacked with rulers when they messed up, and other stories! And no wonder as a result they never really picked up the art of crochet. None of my family ever did something like that to me. And Grandma Dot always took time and marveled at my ideas. She made me believe.
You never know what it is that will make a difference for someone. How about you? What piece of advice changed your life?
Julia M. Chambers
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