Things I NEVER did before I was a Mom

3 years ago

The other night we were planning to take the kids out to dinner. Since we have a little one still, it's hard to just go out to eat. I have to plan ahead. I have to PREPARE. It got me thinking and somewhat laughing on the way to eat about all the things I do now that I NEVER did before kids...


Before kids I NEVER:


  • carried wipes with me. Now? All the time, everywhere! Wipes are essential ;) Table cleaners, hand cleaners, nose wipers...


  • really worried about anything. I can hardly remember what it was like before kids but I know my biggest worry would have been being home in time to watch Lost or if I picked up my clothes at the cleaners before they closed. For real.


  • would leave the house w/o make up. Like NEVER. I'm still not the best at this but I have learned to really not care as much. No time!


  • I never knew just how much stuff you HAVE to take with you just to run a few errands. And how much of a pain car seats and strollers are! 


  • knew just how good at catching vomit in my hand I'd be. When you have a child with a bad gag reflux you catch a lot of vomit!


  • could multi-task as much. I could do a few things at a time but now I can talk on the phone, vacuum, dust, clean up, all while carrying around my 25 pound 15 mth old!


  • had anything follow me around so much! My dog didn't even follow me around as much as my kids do! Everywhere, especially the bathroom. 


  • knew how much sleep I'd just not get. I used to sleep all the time. Nice peaceful, beautiful sleep! 8 hours or more with no interruptions! Imagine!


  • had much to do. Like really what did I do before kids??? I have no earthly clue. Husband and I were married 3 years before we had a baby. 3 years! What the heck did we do for 3 years??? Love on our dog, I guess!


  • knew how hard it was to be a Mom. I knew it was hard but not HOW hard. Now I see all the worry and grief that goes in.  The giving up sanity to help the kids. How you come last. 


  • thought I'd drive a minivan! Guess what? I do, and I LOVE It :) 


  •  but mostly before kids I NEVER knew how much I could love something more than anything in the world. Yes, my kids drive me nuts sometimes. Sometimes I can't wait for bedtimes and a time when  I'm alone for a second. But as soon as I see their eyes in the morning, the green like the forest and blue like the sky eyes they have I'm thankful. Their long lashes and baby soft skin. I can't imagine my life without them. Both of them. Before kids, I never knew what it meant to be a Mom. The hardest, but most rewarding job in the world.


I'm so thankful to be their Mom!


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