Life as we know it

3 years ago

Nobody told me being a mother is going to  be so hard. If i knew that is is going to take so much

time,tears,money,energy and ongoing challenges i only would have one child.

But what if life through you a curve ball and unexpectadly you are becomeing a grandma.

The time is obviosly not right but the expectations so overwelming. I dont know how we are going to do this but she is growing at a rappid pace and is getting very near het date of Birth.  Mabe someone else also went through a time like this with no money only a family who are close. Mabe you can give me a plan.

Mabe it will all work out but after years of how are we going to do this 3 matric farewells many problems,but the only thing standing is family ,mabe this will also just be allright. But it is not what a woman want for her families live. Constant money problems staying with in laws for years on end,we just dont get on our feet and i dont know why.Other people lifes alwais look so picture perfect if you look at them that i envy them really it doesnt matter how hard you work nothing seems to get better. Mabe some day my ship will come and my life will be heading in a different direction.

 

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