Ever seen the Web site There I Fixed It? No? Oh, go! Go now and check it out to see gems like this:
- That should do it! [From There I Fixed It]
So, I haven't done anything worthy of that site, but there was a time — early in my new-homeowner years — when I was just clever enough to pull off some questionable DIY feats... and apparently not clever enough to take the time to do things properly. The truth is, sometimes I preferred the wham-bam-done! method because I knew that if I tried harder, I might open a can of worms that I couldn't handle. Or didn't think I could at the time.
That's the funny thing about learning: When you're intimidated by something, you're in no condition to learn; you're too freaked out to handle the challenge! Evaluating your own work is much the same. When you're unsure of yourself, you're more likely to accept "good enough." But if you want to go from amateur to pro, "good enough" never is. You have to raise your standards. And just as with learning, you're much more capable of pushing yourself when you're feeling secure.
Until I did it, I had no idea I could do it — and that's the value of pushing yourself.
So I find this a fascinating chicken-or-egg question: Do you get better at something and then, from that new foundation of confidence, get pickier? Or do you start being pickier and then get better because you're pushing yourself?
My experience points to the former, but who knows for sure? The one thing I do know is this: Once you discover that you're able to do better, you'll never want to go back. The first time I earned straight A’s in my undergrad years, that was it. I wasn’t satisfied with anything less for the rest of my education. But until I did it, I had no idea I could do it — and that's the value of pushing yourself. It's no coincidence that I loved all of my classes that semester. You've got to love what you're doing enough to really, really dig in.
So, yeah, better and pickier... I'm not sure “which came first” even matters. As long as you keep things positive and healthy – don't browbeat yourself; don't impose unreasonable expectations – this is a great cycle to initiate and stick with. Whatever it is you do, make each finished work better than the last. Compare your best stuff to successful work in your discipline and reset your targets accordingly. Get pickier, get better, and then get even pickier. And whatever you do, don't get featured at There I Fixed It.
- One way to add that guest room you've always wanted. [From There I Fixed It]
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