2 of 7: You've Been Burned Before (Start Right Where You Are)

12 days ago

“My teacher told me I had no talent.”

“My partner isn’t very supportive.”

“I’ve failed before…”

One of the reasons you aren’t moving forward on your projects is because you got your heart broken.

You’ve gotten bad reviews, lost money, chosen bad partners, been scorned, laughed at, put down, fired, misunderstood, tricked and rejected.

And that old pain still hurts.

But guess what?

We ALL have experienced that pain.

Moving past the pain is what turns you into a great artist, because it forces you to learn about fragility, about limitations, about foolishness, ambition and trust.

Once you release the idea that you (alone) have been victimized, you can start to dive into the infinite subtleties of human dynamics.

You can start to realize that everyone in your life genuinely thought they were doing the right thing. They honestly believed that they were helping you, protecting you, teaching you something important.

No matter how misguided, they were doing the best they could with the information they had at the time.

Just as you were.

And are, still.

Your creative life is not supposed to be an endless hopscotching from one lily pad of success to another, any more than every romance is supposed to end in happily-ever-after.

Being a creative genius is about falling down 8 times and getting up 9.

Or, more accurately, falling down 8000 times and getting up 8001.

Every single person – and certainly every single artist – can tell you toe-curling stories about their agonizing failures and impossible obstacles.

So…it’s not just you.

I know your heartbreak has been painful for you, but it’s no reason to stop working.

In fact, the first thing I would recommend is for you to make some art about that heartbreak.

Make a story/song/dance/picture about that humiliated student, that wounded daughter, that neglected performer, that bad review, that unwise bargain.

And then…perhaps you can spend 15 minutes on your project.

“It’s supposed to be hard. If it wasn’t hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great.” – Tom Hanks as Jimmy Duggan in A League of Their Own, screenplay by the great Lowell Ganz and Babaloo Mandel

This little missive is #2 in a series of 7 that I’m doing to encourage you to Start Right Where You Are.

Start Right Where You Are is a lovely, live, 6-week teleclass that starts next Friday, Oct. 16th. It’s only $197 (payment plan available) and, as usual, “satisfaction guaranteed or your tuition cheerfully refunded.”

Here’s where you can go to find out more about it: www.StartRightWhereYouAre.com.

And here’s where you can watch the straight-from-the-heart preview event:
http://app.webinarjam.net/replay/608/7cfca59ac1/1/0

Which got these responses:

“awesome very helpful answer – so joyfully actionable. I’m on it!” – K.

“totally laughing out loud” – C.

“Yep! I even snorted” – T

“love that reframing – actually brought tears for honoring and being authentic..” – K.

“very emotional…. thank you Sam” – S.

When was the last time a webinar made you laugh AND cry?!!?

Plus there’s a special offer that’s only good for the first 50 people who take advantage of it, so listen SOON, OK?

So just to recap, here are your opportunities:

1) Spend 15 minutes right now making some art about one time when you got your creative heart broken.

2) Watch the “Procrastination & Desire” video here:http://app.webinarjam.net/replay/608/7cfca59ac1/1/0

3) Check out Start Right Where You Are at www.StartRightWhereYouAre.com and see if it feels like a good fit for you.

And please write me back and let me know how it goes for you, OK?

Remember: The World Needs Your Art.

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