Memorial Day is a national holiday of picnics and parades. It is also a deeply personal day in remembrance of the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. I am honored and humbled that those who serve feel their country and fellow Americans are worthy of their sacrifices. Yet wars are not benign affairs. So I find myself conflicted, while...
Honoring those who serve,
and resenting the wars they serve in.
Honoring the courage and bravery,
and resenting the death and destruction.
Honoring the pain and sacrifices,
and resenting the war profiteers.
Honoring the ideals wars protect,
and resenting the war machinery.
Honoring our country's strength,
and resenting our war history.
Honoring the war dead,
and resenting the war mongers.
Honoring the surviving loved ones,
and resenting my own helplessness to change any of it.
Second Lt. James Cathey’s body arrived at the Reno Airport in 2005. (Photo credit: Todd Heisler/The Rocky Mountain News, via Associated Press.)
Final Salute -- The Pulitzer prize winning story behind the Lt. Cathey photo.
Do you have a hard time having a "happy" Memorial Day? Do you feel conflicted?
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