Flipping It: How 200 Girls Redefined "Beautiful"

7 years ago

Creativity doesn’t usually make my short-list of qualities that create inner beauty. Normally, I tick off characteristics like kindness, charity, and empathy. When I hear the word “creativity,” I tend to think of works of art. I imagine lovely frescoes, soaring concertos, beautiful paintings, or even a moody boy with a guitar in a coffee shop. When creativity relates to works of art, it is easy to see something exquisite. A creative person creates beautiful things.

But this month, I was asked to contemplate how creativity creates inner beauty. And I immediately thought of a group of high school girls from Colleyville, Texas. Tired of society’s narrow definition of beauty, the group decided to start a new club at Colleyville High School. They called themselves “Redefining Beautiful,” printed matching baby blue shirts, and challenged one another to skip make-up on Tuesdays. Going make-up free once a week might not seem like a big deal, but I remember high school -– social lives flourished on account of a well-done face. If anything, I wore make-up to look like everyone else.


The last thing I wanted was to stand out for a bare face.

In an interview with ABC News, the girls said that make-up is just part of a bigger body-confidence problem for young women, who are constantly trying to achieve the perfection they see in magazines and in movies.


Do you want to change your definition of beautiful? Try these creative activities, which are always great to do with kids, too:

  • Inflate a balloon. Take a marker and write all the negative messages society sends about how your body should look (for example: “No wrinkles,” or “Tan skin”). Once you’ve finished writing down this negativity on the balloon, close your eyes and imagine yourself letting it all go. Place the balloon under your shoe, and pop it.
  • Create a homemade card for a wonderful woman in your life, write a letter describing her admirable characteristics, and drop it in the mail.
  • Write your body a love poem. Keep it in your wallet to re-read whenever you feel sad.
  • On a sheet of butcher’s paper, freehand draw a life-size outline of your entire body. Then, on another sheet of paper, lay down and have a friend trace the outline of your body. How do the drawings of the body differ? Do you "see" yourself accurately?

What are some creative ways that you cultivate inner beauty?

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Caitlin blogs at Operation Beautiful.

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