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10 Ways to be a cheap date (in a good way...)

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:30:00 -0800

You don't have to go broke to have an active dating life. By applying a little creativity and some rule-breaking, not only can you save some serious cash in the dating playground, you can also have more interesting dating experiences. From learning the tricks of how to look fabulous on the cheap to a few inventive no-cost date ideas, check out our date great on a budget guide -- because a fabulous date with little money spent is always priceless.

10 Things every woman should demand from a man

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:15:00 -0800

Each woman has her own completely legitimate set of criteria - can't have back hair, must have health insurance, should have twins running in his family, loves to rollerskate, is George-Clooney charming, prefers wine to beer and so on. But there are certain conditions beyond honesty, respect and good communication that every woman, no matter what your taste in men, deserves to have in her life's co-pilot. Here's a checklist for what you should demand from your man.

How to fight with purpose

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:04:00 -0800

Fighting is tough. The name calling, the false accusations, the hurt egosâ€¦ and often no positive results. That's because couples usually are't fighting with purpose -- they're fighting to win. Instead of trying to resolve the issue, it becomes a battle. Remember these rules in your next spat to ensure you're fighting fairly and with purpose.

10 Sex secrets revealed

Tristan Coopersmith — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:18:00 -0800

Sex guru Emily Morse, host of weekly radio show Sex with Emily recently launched the iPhone app 101 Sex Tips from Sex with Emily to rave reviews and massive downloads. It's no surprise, really -- after all, we could all use some good, proven sex advice from someone who actually knows women. Here, Emily shares with us some of her favorite sex secrets.

Create a successful online profile

Tristan Coopersmith — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 21:57:00 -0800

We've all seen them before -- that nightmare online profile... the one you would NEVER respond to, even if it was the last dating opportunity on Earth. Whether the username was something like madeforyoubaby69, all of his photos were shirtless or the profile made him sound like getting elective surgery would be more fun than going on a date with him, there are plenty of bad ones out there... and yours may be one of them. So take some time to review it and follow these 10 dos and don'ts to ensure your profile is a clickable one.

What guys get right about dating

Tristan Coopersmith — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 21:37:00 -0800

It's hard to admit, but in some ways men are smarter about dating than women are. Here, our writer -- Tristan Coopersmith, author of MENu Dating: Taste Test Your Way to the Main Course. -- weighs in on what guys get right about the dating game.

16 Creative date ideas

Tristan Coopersmith — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:54:00 -0800

Ever found yourself in a verbal tennis match of "What do you want to do tonight?" ...only to end up at dinner and a movie? Well, this year, take a stand against the bore of standard dates like cocktails, coffee, a sporting event, bowling or a visit to the history museum -- none of which lead to can't-stop-thinking-about-it first dates or relationship re-ignition dates! Here are some super fun, creative date ideas that will have you dating outside the box.

20 Easy ideas for elegant style

Tristan Coopersmith — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 04:59:00 -0800

Sure, hemlines rise and fall, and there's a new black every season. But in the fickle world of style, a classic sort of beauty works no matter what the trends. Those pictures of women from the '20s who are still as jaw-droppingly gorgeous as they were when the photos were first snapped prove the point. This kind of beauty is less about fashion and more about spending time putting yourself together, flattering every element of your appearance and feeling confident. Here are 20 simple ways to bring some classic beauty into your look -- and have your photo be one of those that future generations of women admire.

How to care for your winter wear

Tristan Coopersmith — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 23:29:00 -0800

Nothing says winter like cozying up in snuggly boots, luxurious sweaters and stunning hats. What makes these pieces so scrumptious is their high-quality fabrics, which often aren't as fun to care for as they are to wear. Fortunately we have the tips and tricks that make giving these beloved wears their needed TLC. Here's how to care for your more high-maintenance winter wear.

Hot new hairstyles

Tristan Coopersmith — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:41:00 -0800

We spoke to hair God to the stars, Frank Galasso of Frank Studio in Santa Monica, California, the go-to stylist to countless celeb beauties including Kim Kardashian, Gwyneth Paltrow, Leighton Meester and Colbie Caillat, about what 2010 has in store for our locks. He says we'll be paying tribute to the new decade with a statement style as opposed to a cowardly trim. Frank says, "This is the year of the HAIRCUT! Something that makes a statement. This year, a fabulous haircut will be a woman's best accessory."

12 Ways to take control of your life

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:46:00 -0800

Managing 576 Facebook friends, three email accounts, two Twitter identities and a social calendar that rivals that of a celebrity can be exhausting -- and, arguably, can cause premature graying, dark under-eye circles and really unnecessary bitchiness. That's why you need a zen plan this year to relax, refresh and reenergize while you take over the world one status update at a time. The key: Effective time management. Here's how to take control in 2010 and beyond.

Get what you want from your man

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:38:00 -0800

When will we finally accept that the men in our lives will never be mind readers? It's time to put your persuasive voice to good use to get what you want. We can't guarantee he's always gonna get the message, but here are a few ways you can take control of getting what you want.

10 Ways to be a better friend

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:12:00 -0800

There's nothing like the companionship of your best girlfriend -- you know, that girl with whom you can swap any secret, whose closet you can raid and who will tell you that yes, you do look fat in that dress. But nurturing such a special relationship takes effort, especially when life, love and careers take you in different directions. This year, focus on becoming the Courtney Cox to your Jennifer Aniston.

5 Ways to meet better guys

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 10:42:00 -0800

Tired of dating the same ol' kinds of guys, time after time? Always having the same dating style results in wasted time, relationships gone wrong or no dates at all. It's time for you to rock to a new dating beat. Shake up your dating life with these five great resolutions and flirting tips!

5-Minute mom makeover

Tristan Coopersmith — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 14:30:00 -0800

Remember the days when you had countless minutes to devote to coiffing, resulting in flawlessly applied makeup, frizz-free hair and perfectly accessorized outfits? Now those prized minutes have been replaced with diaper changes, lunch packing and arguments about how much skin is too much skin to show at show and tell. It's no surprise that your primping routine has fallen by the wayside. Well, it's time for a style intervention. With these makeover tips and tricks, you can go from drab mom to fab mom in 5 minutes flat.

Winter boot trend: Go bold

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 23:15:00 -0800

For some of us, winter boots are our sole inspiration for getting out of our warm, cozy beds on cold winter mornings. This winter, it's all about embellishment and experimentation. Our hit list includes all of the hottest styles of the season but the real runway magic is in the detail.

Most of the styles below are offered both classically and kicked up a notch, adorned with buckles, studs, chains or sequins and in funky fabrics, such as faux fur, animal skin and colorful suede. Bottom line: 'Tis the season to be daring with your feet - flirt with fringe, fall in love with laces or bow down to a darling bow.

Stylish winter hat trends

Tristan Coopersmith — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 23:01:00 -0800

One of the most fabulous but misunderstood accessories of all time is the hat. It can punch up any outfit from stale to stylish in a snap,but your hair suffers the The secret to hat happiness is not only finding a hat that you love, but also knowing that a hat shouldn't just be used as a solution to a bad hair day. Quite the contrary in fact - to achieve hat harmony, you actually have to do your hair so that the hat lays properly, so upon removal, you minimize the possibility of dreaded hat-head. Below with help from celeb hairstylist Philip Pelusi, we look at the season's hottest hat styles and show you how to rock your locks underneath.

Winter nail polish trends

Tristan Coopersmith — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:33:00 -0800

Rich, bold and equally elegant and intense, this season's color palette is not for the meek, but rather for the woman who does half her talking with her hands. With so many polishes to try and winter's weeks short, you better start now. Before you know it, spring will be in bloom and brick red will have evolved into cotton candy pink.

Top 10 shopping tips for Black Friday

Tristan Coopersmith — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 09:07:00 -0800

Ahhh, the day after Thanksgiving. While some cheer on football teams and others flee their families at warp speed, the savviest of them all work off the carb overload while taking advantage of the season's greatest holiday deals on Black Friday. Here's your insider guide to nabbing the deals you want, while keeping your sanity on this day of mall madness.

Top 10 Christmas activities

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 10:47:00 -0800

Christmas is almost here and one of the best ways to get your family in the spirit is to get crafty. So pull out the pipe cleaners, glue, glitter and icing because with these simple ideas you and your kids will be inspired to create beautiful, festive keepsakes and gifts, not to mention whip up some wonderful treats to eat, too!