How to flirt with text messaging

Text it to me
dirty, baby
Ashtyn Evans

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If you’re like most girls, the idea of sending your lover a sexy text can be quite exciting. It also doesn’t hurt knowing that the little ding of the cell phone text could alert your lover while he’s in a meeting, in class, or in line somewhere. No matter where he is, he can get your message -- loud and clear.
Send sexy text messagesThere are so many benefits to sending naughty text messages. For starters, they are a great way to keep the spice in your relationship. If you want to let your man know what you’re thinking but have a hard time saying it, the text will do it for you!

Likewise, if you’ve just started dating and you’re ready to move to that next level, a text will certainly have him ready for what you want to give him. But the best reason to send them is that they are safe and fun.

In the age of technology, you can start the foreplay mentally before you are even in your lover’s presence. Once upon a time, two lovers at work might toy with cyber sex over instant messengers. These days you can have text love, which will keep you both hot until you finally are together and able to do what you’ve been talking about all day long.

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The problem is that with texting is that you only have so many words and characters to say everything you want to say.

But you don't have to over-complicate things -- when it comes to texting, less is more. You're not writing a novel, but just delivering a fun, sexy hello.

Here are ten ideas to get you started:

  • u look hot 2day
  • hey baby
  • i want to touch u
  • wanna come play?
  • thinking bout u right now
  • what r u wearing?
  • cnt wait 2 c u
  • thx 4 lst nite
  • guess what im wearing
  • u r so sxy
If you want more inspiration, Virgin Mobile might have you covered. A new site has been created called Let's Have Txt, which will teach you more about how to write those dirty messages that are so fun to send.

It's also a great place to go if you are apprehensive about sending those naughty text messages. You can go and choose a helpful professional that will work with you and teach you a thing or two about sending hot erotic messages -- the same kinds of messages you wish to send that special someone. Your lover will be shocked and satisfied when he finds that naughty girl he may not have seen in quite some time!

It will definitely set the scene for a hot night, whether you are doing it for a special occasion like Valentine’s Day or just because you want to have a memorable evening any day of the week. (You can even send a sexy message thanking him for the night before... and of course, this might lead to an encore performance.)

I don’t know about you, but just that thought alone has me ready to text and to get the verbal foreplay rolling!


About the author: Ashtyn Evans is a professional blogger who lives with her family in Michigan. In addition to being a part of the SheKnows community, Ashtyn helps to co-run a popular media, news and opinions blog: Literary Illusions. Ashtyn is a resident sexpert among her friends, and currently is in college to become a sex therapist.


Comments
By sex me up Aug 25, 2009

goddamn i wnt some macho man rubbing on me rite now(; any takers???

By felicia Aug 16, 2009

whats up

By t.sexy Jul 27, 2009

i hope this work,but i need more clue to go about it.some1 help mi

By lola Jul 24, 2009

mmm i could use a big juicy one right now... let's talk baby...

By meg<3 Jul 9, 2009

JokA IM me anytime ild love to talk to you ;) im feeling horney right now so i bet you could really help me out if you know what im saying

By Meg<3 Jul 9, 2009

JokA IM me anytime ild love to talk to you ;) im feeling good right now if you wanna get going

By mario Jun 24, 2009

i find sexy texting quite ho hum really. I would rather talk like that in person. But if my girl likes it, i'll do it for her to turn her on. Does nothing for me.

By nikkiee Jun 12, 2009

i love doing sexy texting with my bf. its hot and since we dont see each other alot its a good way to keep us hot. and plus we talk dirty on the phonee which works real good. if you are in a long distant relationship i would recommend this to you.

By werido Jun 9, 2009

from a girls point of veiw girls dont like when guys send them gross text messages it makes them feel dirty and wrong. they like when a guy respects them.

By ChriS Mar 26, 2009

Really want a sexy flirty boo hittin up my email adress flirtin real nazty mhmmm

By JokA Mar 26, 2009

LOOKIN 4 a HORNY GIRL FLIRTY ALL NIGHT TYPE

By suzi Mar 25, 2009

Make em horny ;) -$uz!

By antola Mar 18, 2009

I love my childs fhater a lot but I dont think that he love me much i will do E to get that from him can you help me with some txt message to let him no how i love im whis he at work on a day please help me

By Deepak Jumani Mar 14, 2009

You are too tasty... You are a chocolate... You are amazing... You are hotter than a steam engine. these are some short text messages can be tried..

By This site is lame! Feb 14, 2009

the examples are horribal. I'd do something liek this. *I walk into your room in my normal jeans and pull over hoody because its snowing outside Your sick and tired laying in your bed watching the t.v. i slowly make my way over to your bed tracking little bits of snow onto your floor as i get closer to your bed i start to kneel down. I finaly come face to face with you and kiss your left cheek then run my moist cold right hand down your right cheek I look into your eyes and whisper* I love you baby

By patrick gonzales Jan 25, 2009

send sexy text pics of real people

By Emmanuel Nov 28, 2008

Hello,i enjoy sending sexy text messages to my girlfriend,sorry my fiancee,cant even think of something better,maybe i should call her my wife to be because she is the only reason i am living and her name is ANIEDI.

By baby girl Nov 12, 2008

Its cool to do this often but some men are shy to admit it that like the messages. It crazier and brings more fun

By wydekia Sep 15, 2008

hey i really like sending sxy txt to my boyfriend and im sure that he enjoys it also i learned from him he teach me everything i love him u kno who u are

By lala Aug 5, 2008

i like sending brief yet sexy text messages to my boyfriend who is miles away. Everytime I do that,we usually spend abit of time on the phone--a good excuse for the restroom even at work.

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